What is a Soul Mate?
As the world gets increasing globalised....time is moving faster than ever....in big cities around the world, young people are getting married later or dun even see any reason to get married.
There is no real push or desire to get hicthed unless u find the one or just plain eager to start a family etc..... in the UK, they did a study and predicted that single folks will outnumber married folks in 20yrs time!
of course who doesnt want to find their ideal partner and live happily ever after...but in this day and time, is that possible? being financially indenpendent, leading a lifestyle u want, and then suddenly realise u have to get married cuz you r at marriageble age? especially for ladies, it just suddenly dwell on u if yr r in yr 30s, single...your time is running out. is that how we are supposed to feel?
by the time we are out of UNI, say early 20s, work a while, get promotions, enjoy life a little, go for holidays..before u know it time passes real fast! and u r 30!
so how? no thanks to technology and rather "waste of time" things like youtube, blogging, twitter, Facebook to make our lives even faster.
its really sick when u see all these dating agencies start sprouting up, events done by money crazy pple for single pple who think they shld try such things to be normal. and sometimes these organisers are nerdy and pathetic. Nothing like somebody who knows how to match make, they just wanna earn a fast buck from people who are seriously wanting to meet some like minded people!
Most of the times at these events, you find a pool of people that are NOT filtered at all. its really disappointing. whats the point of wasting time and money like that. Its really energy draining too.
i guess perhaps i am still a hard core romantic at heart.
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sorry to intrude i was just surfing around on blogger to find people in the world [yes it is getting smaller isn't it?] who love Faye Wong. She is knew to me since I grew up in the states and didn't "find" her until just a couple years ago ...but anyway.. yes what you write is true [and yes there are us dreamers and romantics still out here in the world] that people don't feel the need to get together for marriage...you think maybe because there are enough people in the world we don't really need to make babies like crazy anymore do we?
have a nice day...
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